3.12.11

i think im fallin for you

I hope that someday, somebody wants to hold you for twenty minutes straight, and that's all they do. They don't pull away, they don't look at your face, they don't try to kiss you. All they do is wrap you up in their arms, without an ounce of selfishness in it.
So here's a piece of advice: let go when you're hurting too much, give up when love isn't enough, and move on when things aren't like before. Because, surely there is someone out there who will love you even more.
You wanna play the game? It's like this: you play around, you have fun, you share secrets, you tell stories, you cry on each others shoulders, you hold hands, you think about forever. But, you DON'T fall in love. Because, the first one who does, loses.
Love is about taking risks. And maybe, if we forgave ourselves and we forgave each other we could work out. You're the first person I want to talk to, it's like something hasn't even happened until I tell it to you. I like you. And I like me when I'm with you. 
A guy out there was meant to be the love of your life, your best friend, your soulmate, the one you can tell your dreams to. He'll brush the hair out of your eyes, send you flowers when you least expect it. He'll stare at you during the movies, even though he paid $9.50 to see it. He'll call to say "goodnight" or just because he's missing you. He'll look into your eyes and tell you that you're the most beautiful girl in the world. And for the first time in your life, you'll believe it. -Nicholas Sparks
I really enjoy spending time with you, even if we're just going to be sitting around and talking about nothing. There are a million things I love about you,like your nose or the way you smile, the way you look me in the eye too. And I just get the greatest feeling when I make you laugh, I feel as if my company makes you happy, and that's what I wish for you. For you to be happy. And when I see you laugh at my clumsy ways, it just makes me want to spend the rest of my time with you so I can see a smile on your face. 
Sometimes there doesn't even have to be a reason. I knew from experience that no matter how much you turn things in your head, trying to make sense of them, some people just defy all logic.
Don't ever use someone's past against them. You're just reminding them of the mistakes they made back then. If you watch their facial expression carefully, then you'll see the hurt in their eyes as they reminisce everything that happened. Never use emotion as a weapon, it strikes deeper than you can imagine. 
 Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life.
I'm not miserable, but I'm not happy. I'm not strong, but I'm not weak. I'm not rude, but I'm not polite. I'm not popular, but I'm not a loner. I'm not sexy, but I'm not horrid. I'm not dumb, but I'm no genius. I'm not you, but I am me. Accept it.
She's the girl that has a few best friends and doesn't need anymore. The girl that laughs the hardest at her own jokes. She's the girl that will hang up on you, but then call you right back and say sorry. She's the girl who will never leave your side when you need her. The girl who will go out of her way to cheer you up. 
I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you in school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don’t teach you how to walk away from someone you don’t love any longer. They don’t teach you how to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. They don’t teach you what to say to someone who’s dying. Honestly, they don’t teach you anything important.
Sometimes I still stare at you, amazed and absolutely enchanted. And even though I've held your gaze a thousand times, when you turn to me and give me that silly grin of yours, you still make me blush. 
want my advice? stay mad as long as you can. because once you're not mad anymore, it hurts. it hurts like hell and once it hurts that bad you can't make yourself mad anymore.
You give me more courage than anyone I have ever known. I’d skydive off a plane if I knew you'd be there, right beside me. That's what life is about. It's those moments when you feel entirely carefree, like nothing can touch you. It's those moments that make the hard parts worth it; those moments when I'm with you. 
okay, this is going to sound so bad, but the world is an unfair place. it is. & no one can tell you how you see it. it's like one person thinks it's a shitbox place, & another thinks it's beautiful. & it's true. it's all true. parts are beautiful, & parts are shitty, just like our life we have. but tell me this: how could you know what happy is, if you've never experienced tradgey?

Don't search for love, 
search for someone that makes you happy. 
Sooner or later, that happiness will evolve 

into love. 
You can't be perfect for everybody,
but you will always be best for the one who truly 
deserves you.


Relationships don't need promises, terms, and conditions.
It just needs two wonderful people; one who can 

trust and one who can understand. 

28.11.11

ive just been calling you to see...

In real life, saying the right thing at the right moment is beyond crucial. So crucial, in fact, that most of us start to hesitate, for fear of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. But lately what I've begun to fear more than that is letting the moment pass without saying anything. But if you know how you feel and so clearly know what you need to say, I don't think you should wait. I think you should speak now. -Taylor Swift
You give me more courage than anyone I have ever known. I’d skydive off a plane if I knew you'd be there, right beside me. That's what life is about. It's those moments when you feel entirely carefree, like nothing can touch you. It's those moments that make the hard parts worth it; those moments when I'm with you.
Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. No body said it would be easy they just promised it would be worth it.
Sometimes being too nice is dangerous, you have to show your mean side once in awhile to avoid getting hurt.
I think best friends are the ones who have been through what you've been through. they understand where you're coming from and where you're going. its always a challenge to stick by a friend who is making choices we disagree with and are sometimes even dangerous. but its at these times when our friends need us the most.
It's not as easy as it looks. Having something right in front of you, that you wanted for so long and having to give it up because you don't want it anymore. But it feels so good in the end when you realize how good of a choice you made
Ladies, let me give you some advice. You can throw away all your stupid fucking chick-lit , self help , why doesn t he love me books out, because this is aall you need to know; Men will treat you the way you let them. There is no such thing as "deserving" respect. You get what you demand from people. If you demand respect, he will either respect you or he won't associate with you. It really is that simple.
i can’t sleep, i can’t eat, i can’t do anything but think about him. at night i dream of him, all day i want to see him, and when i do see him my heart turns over and i think i will faint with desire

Go for the person who makes you smile with all your heart and soul. The person whom you can't wait to see or talk to. This is the person whom you're meant to be with. The person that you know in your heart is right for you.
Everyone has their weak spots. The one thing that despite your best efforts, will always bring you to your knees, regardless of how strong you are otherwise.
We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have. 
being single doesn't always mean you are available. sometimes you have to put up a sign that says "do not disturb" on your heart. 
When people say friendships don't last forever, they never met us. You're my best friend and probably the only reason I am who I am today. You've helped me shape my character and become a better, stronger person. Only you know everything- i trust you with my whole life. Be strong, stay beautiful. I love you so much.
okay, this is going to sound so bad, but the world is an unfair place. it is. & no one can tell you how you see it. it's like one person thinks it's a shitbox place, & another thinks it's beautiful. & it's true. it's all true. parts are beautiful, & parts are shitty, just like our life we have. but tell me this: how could you know what happy is, if you've never experienced tragedy?
Have you ever looked at a picture of yourself and seen a stranger in the background? It makes you wonder how many strangers have pictures of you, how many moments of other peoples lives have we been in. Were we part of someone's life when their dreams came true, or were we there when their dreams died? Did we keep trying to get in, as if we were somehow destined to be there.. or did the shot take us by surprise? Just think; you could be a big part of someone else's life, and not even know it